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Reeling from Divorce?

Separated?
Divorced?
I’ve been there.   

It happened to me in 2005.  And I never saw it coming.  Completely blindsided.  I was devastated and so completely in denial that our marriage was over that I didn’t tell a soul for three weeks.  I just kept waiting for him to come back.  I believed him when he said he “just needed time.”  He did need time; time away from me to establish a new life.

Once I received a letter asking for a divorce, I finally began to accept what was happening.  I opened up and began to share with others.  And through that sharing process, I began to finally move through the stages of grief and toward a place of healing.

It took about six months of separation for me to actually THANK my husband for leaving me.   I didn’t resent him.  I didn’t hate him.  I was GRATEFUL for what he did for us.  Breaking us apart was a BRAVE move.

I understood that we BOTH played a role in that relationship.  If I wanted to move forward and GROW, I would need to work on me.  I needed to learn why I got myself into that relationship in the first place and why I felt so little of myself that I refused to leave.

And the result of that gratitude and that acceptance has been a journey of personal growth and transformation that led me into the arms of a new man; a man so superbly suited to me I feel as if I conjured him up somehow.

But I needed to LOVE MYSELF before I found him.  He would have walked right past me otherwise.

There is so much in store for you.

Here are some links to help you on your journey:

Can Divorce Be An Act of Love?

Hate is a Divorce Lawyer’s Annuity

Splitting the Baby

 

 

 

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